Let’s think of the questions which, when asked, can make you see things in a different perspective, questions that may help you to understand your own situation and reactions.<\/p>\n
A powerful question to a patient that either blames herself for not being positive enough or a patient that finds it hard to cope with the emotional, or medical part of the treatment would be: \u201cIf you knew the exact day that you would get pregnant would you experience the fertility treatment <\/strong>differently?<\/p>\n A normal answer to this question is:\u00a0 if I knew exactly when I would get pregnant I think the treatment and the attempts I needed to do would be so much easier and I would be able to live my life without the fear and concerns that relate to me not becoming a mother. I would feel happier because I would know that the treatment is not a financial risk and I think I would feel more energetic and positive!<\/p>\n If the answer to this powerful question would change a patient’s experience of treatment what does that tell us?<\/p>\n It is the unsureness and the lack of control in this project that can make the treatment difficult to go through.<\/p>\n This unsureness gives the patient a different kind of consequence:<\/strong><\/p>\n But, as we don\u2019t know we will give you some advice on how to cope with these consequences in a good way:<\/p>\n A powerful question that will show that it is the unsureness and the lack of control that can make the treatment hard to go through.<\/p>\n Take action and try to make balance in your life and create projects besides the treatment where you are in control! This will make you feel better. Then put your trust in the clinic and that they will do their best to create a perfect embryo and make you ready for treatment.<\/p>\n Family counselor<\/span> Let’s think of the questions which, when asked, can make you see things in a different perspective, questions that may help you to understand your own situation and reactions. A powerful question to a patient that either blames herself for not being positive enough or a patient that finds it hard to cope with the emotional, or medical part of the treatment would be:<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":21466,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[118],"tags":[],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\nUnsureness and the lack of control.<\/h2>\n
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What if you knew when you were going to get pregnant?<\/h2>\n
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