{"id":21673,"date":"2016-11-11T06:11:57","date_gmt":"2016-11-11T06:11:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/olgafertilityclinic.com\/?p=21673"},"modified":"2024-12-26T10:52:10","modified_gmt":"2024-12-26T10:52:10","slug":"who-is-the-boss","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/olgafertilityclinic.com\/en\/infertility-blog\/who-is-the-boss\/","title":{"rendered":"Who is the boss in your life?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Are you the boss in your own life?<\/strong><\/h4>\n

Is your unborn child already the boss in your life?
\nIs the IVF treatment the boss in your life?
\nHave you become a passenger in your life?<\/p>\n

Many of the women we have met suffer from the same problems; they feel that their life has been put on hold and they feel that they have no more energy. They are tired after several failed attempts, they feel frustrated and they don\u2019t know what to do to get their energy back.<\/p>\n

Their goal is to finally get pregnant and to become mothers, but the waiting time, the unsureness and the unpredictable of the situation they find themselves in makes them tired. They feel that they no longer have control in their own lives and that in some way they feel they are victims of their own situation.\u00a0 The treatment takes a lot of energy and if they have an exhausting job as well they soon feel tired and have no energy. The job and the treatment suddenly control their lives, they feel they have lost control!<\/p>\n

We do not control the fertility treatment<\/strong>, the only thing we can do is to do what the doctor tells us to do. We need to put our trust the clinic and be confident that they will always do their best to make us pregnant.\u00a0<\/p>\n

We do not control the embryo that is transferred<\/strong>, how the embryo will develop is up to nature, destiny, or god; depending on what you believe in.\u00a0<\/p>\n

What you do control is:\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n