{"id":21693,"date":"2024-11-24T06:26:55","date_gmt":"2024-11-24T06:26:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/olgafertilityclinic.com\/?p=21693"},"modified":"2025-01-04T14:07:12","modified_gmt":"2025-01-04T14:07:12","slug":"fertility-and-fear","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/olgafertilityclinic.com\/en\/infertility-blog\/fertility-and-fear\/","title":{"rendered":"How to transform the fear of not being able to get pregnant into motivation during fertility treatment?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\n\tA woman I talked to today told me that&nbsp;she had a great fear, this was the fear of not ever being able to get pregnant, of not being able to have children, of being the one that&nbsp;people would call the &lsquo;childless lady&rsquo; and&nbsp;also the fear that&nbsp;all the money, effort, time and&nbsp;focus that&nbsp;she uses on&nbsp;her child project will be worthless and&nbsp;may never give her the baby that&nbsp;she is longing for. Didn&rsquo;t she know how to get rid of this fear of not being able to conceive?<\/p>\n<p class=\"phonecons\">\n\tWould you like to talk to other patients who&nbsp;have experienced the same feelings so&nbsp;that&nbsp;they share with you their solutions?<\/p>\n<p class=\"phonecons-sm\">\n\tPlease take 2 min to fill in&nbsp;the form and&nbsp;we get back to you with contacts of our patients willing to talk to you<\/p>\n<p class=\"phonecons\">\n\t<a class=\"ui button form2 contactus large\" href=\"\/en\/contacts\/talking-about-your-feelings\/\">Get in&nbsp;contact with other patients<\/a><\/p>\n<h3>\n\tHow to transform fear into motivation during fertility treatment.<\/h3>\n<p>\n\t<strong>I wanted to help her<\/strong>. As&nbsp;a counselor, I&nbsp;want to help my patients to change this feeling of fear because&nbsp;it is a destructive feeling and&nbsp;it steals the patient&rsquo;s energy. Is it possible to think differently about fear and&nbsp;to transform the way this fear affects us?<\/p>\n<p>\n\tI think we can; to understand this fear we need to look at&nbsp;our motivation and&nbsp;the risk we feel we are taking when&nbsp;going into an uncertain project.<\/p>\n<p>\n\tMaybe you feel that&nbsp;fertility treatment is like taking a risk because&nbsp;the result is uncertain as&nbsp;it may all be up to nature! This uncertainty and&nbsp;feeling of losing control can develop into the feeling of fear of not being able to get pregnant.<\/p>\n<p class=\"accent\"> So&nbsp;what can we do with this fear of not being able to conceive?&nbsp; How can I help you to think differently about this fear?<\/p>\n<h3>\n\tHere is some of my advice:<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>\n\t\tThe fear of not being able to conceive is a part of your motivation. If&nbsp;the &ldquo;child&nbsp;project&rdquo; were not important to you then you would not feel this fear. The fear of not being able to get pregnant shows you that&nbsp;it is really important for&nbsp;to you to become a parent.<\/li>\n<li>\n\t\tThere is a lot of energy in&nbsp;fear, this energy can motivate you to act and&nbsp;to do something that&nbsp;will bring you closer to the child of your dreams and&nbsp;it will help you continue with <strong>fertility treatment<\/strong>!<\/li>\n<li> If&nbsp;you feel this fear of not being able to get pregnant this means that&nbsp;you are in&nbsp;contact with your own feelings and&nbsp;this is positive! If&nbsp;you stay in&nbsp;contact with your feelings during fertility treatment then you will also be able to feel the great love for&nbsp;your child when&nbsp;you finally hold it in&nbsp;your arms.<\/li>\n<li>\n\t\tIs it really a fear you feel, or&nbsp;do you feel excited, unsure or&nbsp;anxious? What you tell yourself will become the &lsquo;truth&rsquo;!<\/li>\n<li>\n\t\tNormalize your feelings; it is normal to get emotionally involved in&nbsp;a project that&nbsp;will give you the greatest gift of all &#8211; a child!<\/li>\n<li>\n\t\tTry to focus on&nbsp;other parts of your life; your job, your partner, your friends and&nbsp;hobbies, because&nbsp;your fear will not make you more or&nbsp;less pregnant!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p class=\"accent2\">\n\tI know that&nbsp;you can use the energy from your fear as&nbsp;a motivation to choose the best alternative and&nbsp;the best fertility clinic. Let the doctors and&nbsp;nurses take over the responsibility to help you create your child and&nbsp;trust that&nbsp;you will one day reach your goal and&nbsp;that it is thanks to your fear that&nbsp;it will happen!<\/p>\n<p class=\"accent3\">\n\tThe fear is here to help you!\u2028 The best of luck!<\/p>\n<p class=\"phonecons\">\n\tWould you like to discuss your situation with us?<\/p>\n<p class=\"phonecons-sm\">\n\tPlease take 2 min to fill in&nbsp;the form and&nbsp;we will get back to you and&nbsp;try to help<\/p>\n<p class=\"phonecons\">\n\t<a class=\"ui button form2 contactus large\" href=\"\/en\/contacts\/talking-about-your-feelings\/\">Get professional advice about your situation<\/a><\/p>\n<h3>\n\tWelcome to your end destination!<\/h3>\n<p class=\"accent\">\n\t&hellip;I know you will want to reach your goal as&nbsp;soon&nbsp;as&nbsp;possible; you are so&nbsp;ready to become a parent! I know that&nbsp;you will want the <strong>fertility treatment<\/strong> to end and&nbsp;to become pregnant as&nbsp;quickly as&nbsp;possible, I know that&nbsp;it is important for&nbsp;you to see the end of this child project!<\/p>\n<p>Tone Br\u00e5ten<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Fear can give energy. In this article you will find thoughts on how your fear of not succeding can become your ally. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":21553,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[118],"tags":[],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v18.6 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>How to transform the fear of not being able to get pregnant into motivation during fertility treatment? - O.L.G.A. Fertility<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Fear can give energy. 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