{"id":21695,"date":"2016-08-12T07:11:57","date_gmt":"2016-08-12T07:11:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/olgafertilityclinic.com\/?p=21695"},"modified":"2025-01-10T13:54:40","modified_gmt":"2025-01-10T13:54:40","slug":"you-dont-need-answers-to-all-your-questions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/olgafertilityclinic.com\/en\/infertility-blog\/you-dont-need-answers-to-all-your-questions\/","title":{"rendered":"You don\u2019t need answers to all your questions before your baby is born with the help of donor egg!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I know already many of the questions you will have before&nbsp;going for&nbsp;egg donation and&nbsp;I also know that&nbsp;it is not necessary to have an answer to every one of them right now. This is because&nbsp;you will change, society will change and&nbsp;you don&#8217;t yet&nbsp;know your future child.<\/p>\n<p>When&nbsp;you consider egg donation you seek information. Information leads to confidence and&nbsp;confidence leads to inner peace. We all seek the feeling of inner peace and&nbsp;we all want to feel that&nbsp;we will make the right decisions. We fear the feeling of regret and&nbsp;the feeling of not doing the best for&nbsp;our future child.\u2028 In&nbsp;the matter of egg donation, we want to make decisions that&nbsp;are the best for&nbsp;our future child.<\/p>\n<h3>This is some of the questions that&nbsp;need to be answered:<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>Should I tell, or&nbsp;not tell my child about the egg donor and&nbsp;how she came to be part of the child\u2019s creation?<\/li>\n<li>Will the child feel a distance from me if&nbsp;I tell her\/him about our <strong>egg donation process<\/strong>?<\/li>\n<li>How will it be to be \u201c<strong>a donor egg child<\/strong>\u2019?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p class=\"accent4\">Would you like to talk to our egg donation patients, who&nbsp;used to have same questions?<br \/>\nWould you like them to share with you the answers, which&nbsp;they found after&nbsp;becoming mothers through egg donation?<\/p>\n<p class=\"phonecons-sm\">Please take 2 min to fill in&nbsp;the form and&nbsp;we get back to you with contacts of our patients willing to talk to you.<\/p>\n<p class=\"phonecons\"><a class=\"ui button form2 contactus large\" href=\"\/en\/contacts\/talking-about-your-feelings\/\">Get in&nbsp;contact with egg donation parents<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"accent4\">These are the questions that&nbsp;are not easy to answer because&nbsp;the answers lie in&nbsp;the future. We have no idea what the future will bring, all we know is what is here and&nbsp;now. Still, we have the need to get answers to this kind of questions before&nbsp;we even&nbsp;get pregnant!<\/p>\n<p class=\"accent4\"><strong>How I see it. It will be difficult to know exactly what the right decision is before&nbsp;donor egg pregnancy starts and&nbsp;this is because:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>The child\u2019s personality will affect your decision of telling, or&nbsp;not telling about him\/her being \u201ca donor egg child\u201d. I have met couples that&nbsp;decided to tell the child about their egg donation, but&nbsp;when they got to know their child they felt differently. They felt 100% that&nbsp;the child was theirs and&nbsp;that their child was too sensitive to handle the information about being \u201ca donor egg baby\u201d. I have also experienced the opposite. Parents that&nbsp;decided not to tell the child about egg donation and&nbsp;when they got to know their child they felt that&nbsp;they were keeping a secret from the child and&nbsp;they really felt that&nbsp;the child could handle the information in&nbsp;a good way. Our attitude and&nbsp;ability to tell the child together with the child\u2019s personality will affect the child\u2019s reaction.<\/li>\n<li>How will it feel to be \u201ca donor egg child\u201d? What we know is that&nbsp;time changes. To do <strong>egg donation treatment <\/strong>becomes more and&nbsp;more normal and&nbsp;less taboo. So&nbsp;that&nbsp;means that&nbsp;being \u201c<strong>a donor baby<\/strong>\u201d will become more and&nbsp;more normal. So&nbsp;when your child grows up, the way he or&nbsp;she feels about being \u201c<strong>a donor egg child<\/strong>\u201d will be affected by the time he, or&nbsp;she lives in, so&nbsp;it is not so&nbsp;easy to know exactly how the child will feel.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p class=\"accent4\"><strong>You see?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It is not necessary to have answers to all your questions before&nbsp;going for&nbsp;egg donation. You just need to trust that&nbsp;your decision today is the right one, right now. Time will change and&nbsp;you will change, but&nbsp;the only opportunity you have is to make a decision that&nbsp;feels right for&nbsp;you and&nbsp;your future child today. You don&#8217;t know what the future will bring and&nbsp;you cannot control it.<\/p>\n<p class=\"accent4\">I know that&nbsp;your decision is made by energy from your maternal instinct. So&nbsp;I know that&nbsp;your decisions are made with love, care and&nbsp;your love for&nbsp;your future child!\u00a0 That&nbsp;should give you inner peace; inner peace to make the right decisions today&nbsp;: ) that&nbsp;is good enough!<\/p>\n<p class=\"accent3\">Tone Br\u00e5ten<\/p>\n<p class=\"phonecons\">Would you like to discuss your situation with us?<\/p>\n<p class=\"phonecons-sm\">Please take 2 min to fill in&nbsp;the form and&nbsp;we will get back to you and&nbsp;try to help.<\/p>\n<p class=\"phonecons\"><a class=\"ui button form2 contactus large\" href=\"\/en\/contacts\/talking-about-your-feelings\/\">Get professional advice about your situation<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I know already many of the questions you will have before deciding to do egg donation treatment and I also know that it is not necessary to have an answer to every one of them right now.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":21550,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[118],"tags":[],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v18.6 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>How to tell your donor egg baby about your egg donation - O.L.G.A. 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